Sofia—first, I would notice if you were gone and miss you immensely! Second, I know EXACTLY what you’re going through with this. All I can say is, any writer worth being part of your community would never ASK for reciprocation or condemn you for what they view as your lack of attention. Maybe that’s what that particular person hungers for on Medium, but I guarantee you that’s not the norm. If someone is making you feel bad about yourself on this platform…you don’t need them.